Well heck, the holding the button for a minute seemed to work. Anyway, it is up and running again, thanks so much for taking the time to give me a detailed method to try.
I guess my only question now is, am I doing something to trigger this behavior?
When I had to reset everything the first time, I vowed to sync often as I got it set up with apps, email, etc. So this time, 95% of my work was restored so it wasn't as big a deal when it came to life tonight.
I thought it might be the USB cord, but out of the two I have, neither acted differently than the other. The only thing I can speculate is that this time around, my PC laptop was "asleep" and the ipad was plugged in when I woke it up and tried to sync. itunes never recognized the ipad after awakening the PC, no matter what I tried.
So my next action will be to only plug into the pc when syncing (I did know about the charging thing - but only after I first got it and noticed it wasn't charging and had to google that.) If you do have any theories or past history of situations that can cause the problem I experienced, please share - I just want a happy experience.
I do like the interfaces Apple has, but not having to utilize the creative side of it's expertise (video and artistic) I keep getting frustrated by little things - kids can't do their Club Penguin, Livestream doesn't work with it yet - stuff like that.
Thanks again for your help, it is greatly appreciated.