I have moved your posts into their own thread to enable members to help you better without interrupting that other ongoing thread. By the way, this is called hijacking a thread which is against our Rules, so best to open a new thread for your issues after first doing a search.
Now to your issue.....there are a few ways to have videos on your iPad......first is to download them from the iTunes Store. If you have them on your pc/mac then these can be dragged into iTunes and then synced to your iPad. You can also copy DVDs that you own and then sync these to your iPad also. So let us know what videos they are that you would like put on your iPad and we can go from there.
The IPad Forum is a community of members from all walks of life and from all over the world coming together to share our experiences and to help each other learn about this wonderful piece of technology the Ipad. There is a wealth of information already here in the many threads we have so doing some searches will answer most of the questions you have. If then you cannot find the answer you are seeking then by all means post your question. There are many friendly and informed members here only too willing to help you.