1. Go to your iPad email
2. Click the little icon with the pen in the right top corner
3. Write whoever your writing too's email address in the box that says email address
4. When finished there is a button in the top right corner it's blue and the word " send " is written in white push it and it will automatically send the email
Hi, Did you try this: Disable to 'save a copy to the server' option, then, when you drop the email into the trash on you iPad, it should automatically disappear from your Hotmail account because you downloaded it to your iPad.