Twerppoet, THANK YOU! I was somehow in private mode (which I still don't understand) and when I got out my problems were solved. I don't mean to look a gift techie in the mouth but do you have any suggestions as to how I can get my mail program to save items into the SENT folder after I send them? I use xfinity mail. Thanks again.
Most email service setups will automatically save to an email folder; either local or no the server.
Xfinity is probably a POP3 account, which means the Sent folder will be local. Check with your email support and see if you can set it up as an IMAP account. This should let you save the Sent folder on the server, as well as being a more robust email setup for mobile devices.
You can check your email Sent folder setup this way.
Go to Mail, Contacts, Calendars and choose your Account. (My example is Yahoo, but other's should look similar)
Tap the account name at the top, then Advanced
Among other things this will give a you a list of standard folders to set up. The Sent folder should appear; though it may not. Gmail does not offer a Sent folder setup (because it has All Mail instead. If you don't see a Sent folder here, then your current service/setup does not support it. However, this is pretty unlikely.
Now you can select what folder you Sent folder will be saved to. The top option is to save it locally on the iPad. If you have a POP3 aqccount this will probably be your only choice. If you have an IMAP account you'll get a list of server folders. You should choose the Sent folder on the server if you have the option. This will keep your Sent folder sycnronized no matter what device or computer you are on.
This is the gest choice for all the Mailbox Behaviors on an IMAP or Exchange account.
Edit: Sorry if the post disappeard for a while. I had to redo some images, and the site would not let me delete the individula images, so I had to delete the entire post and re-do. Well, it wasn't that bad. I copied the text, so I didn't have to retype much.