I have a large audio library, over 80000 songs. When I plug in my iPad and select it from devices, then click on the audio tab iTunes freezes and then crashes. It also does this with my iPhone as well. If I remove all the songs in the library I can select audio and it works. Sadly I have no music to select though. 
I have reloaded iTunes and it still does it. Do I have too many songs?
Any help would be greatly appreciated.

I have reloaded iTunes and it still does it. Do I have too many songs?
Any help would be greatly appreciated.