I haven't seen a tool like this, and suspect that Apple does not supply an API that developers can use to access this level of network information.
The network tools I've found worth keeping are:
Fing - quick network scan, easy and fast
JaNet HD - slower, but more tools than Fing
zScan Pro - similar to JaNet, with different UI and slightly different tool mix.
None of them are constant, graphical, or as detailed as what you want, but they may be better than nothing.