Thanks for the information it's much appreciated and very informative! Where do I find the PuTTY app? Can I change the password without having access to my laptop as it is fried and no longer of any use to me?
Google putty, it is a windows program. But if your computer is fried, nevermind.
As for the ssh password, open Cydia and in the bottom left of the main page, there is a link that says "root password, how to". You will need a terminal for iPad though.