Tried again
Well, that was an excellent link to Matth3's article about how to sync photos. It provided a couple of points that are anything BUT obvious to us poor users. Who would think that if I want ALL my photos transferred that I shouldn't check "all folders"! Imagine that.
So, I went back and tried to select all of the folders, individually, from a folder where I spent a bunch of time making sure that I did not have any SUB-folders. Pain in the ass.
Well, that didn't work too well. The whole iTunes/iPad system froze somewhere in the middle of "optimizing photos". I noticed this when I got up at 3AM and noticed that the iPad was still sync'g - after doing so for about 5 hours.
So, again, I went back and UNCHECK'd 90% of the folders and tried again. That seems to have worked. So, I guess I have to sync a few folders at a time, and I have to setup a SPECIAL folder location where I can properly UN-organize my photos so that iTunes will sync them. Sheesh! THis is what I call garbage software. And this means that when I add new photos, I have to carefully add them to 2 locations: 1) sensibly located in an organized set of folders that make sense, and 2) into a specially dis-organized iTunes capable folder. I am truly excited.
And, if that isn't enough, during the sync process, it brings my PC to its knees. So, I cannot do any other work while it is sync'g.