Wow, I was not expecting this much help. i forgot to check back here because after my last post, I attempted to do dozens of Google searches, all confusing me and leading me to question something else. The part that stumps me, is that I do not know for sure I guess, if I am able to setup a VPN from my computer or set it up on my router with Port Forwarding, or what it may be. From the sounds of it between you two, it seems that i can from my laptop, which i have also tried to find videos and tutorials on how to, but each tutorial, has me put in some internet address as if I have a paid server setup.
Another question, is would it be easier if I set up two VPNs (Made a friend setup their computer to a VPN as well as me do so too) or can I just set up one, and then tell my friend and have me connect to that VPN. That would be the ideal situation. (One VPN [On my computer, whatever it takes] and then both ipads connect to that).
Again, thanks for your help so far guys, I am happy to hear back when you do!