Are you certain that the party you are trying to connect with has an iPad 2 or newer? For me, iMessage works far better than FaceTime for talking to other folk.
I'm moving your thread to New Members' Introductions - Site Assistance where you should get some replies and help.
Thanks for getting back to me. Yes, these are 3 ipads I have had face time conversations with regularly I have cleared the bottom buttons, the safari searches and rebooted it using the him and power buttons. Any other ideas?
I had a problem with FaceTime and then iMessages with an iPad 3 which had had no problems since new. I finally restored it back to factory settings and it worked again. I hope you find out how to fix this but all the usual routes didn't work for me. Trawl the Apple website. They usually have the answer except in my case.