dont worry over it.
There are several Flash enabled browsers for the ipad that claim to give Flash compatibility. Some of these work to varying degrees, but none give fluent smooth regular Flash. and none ever will. Different Flash routines work and stream different from different sites and different servers, so no, there is no definitive Flash player. They're all pretty lame, and as mentioned, there's none that suits all.
IPAD DOESNT DO FLASH HOWEVER YOU TRY IT.