Ensure your computer has the most current version of iTunes (you can get the program from www.apple.com). Then, plug the iPad into your computer. iTunes will walk you through the set-up of the iPad. Then, you'll be off and running.
The IPad Forum is a community of members from all walks of life and from all over the world coming together to share our experiences and to help each other learn about this wonderful piece of technology the Ipad. There is a wealth of information already here in the many threads we have so doing some searches will answer most of the questions you have. If then you cannot find the answer you are seeking then by all means post your question. There are many friendly and informed members here only too willing to help you.