Hi
Ken - not completely clear if your 'Today View' is just there or you are swiping to bring it up? But just a couple of questions: 1) In Settings > Display & Brightness - are you using the 'More' or 'Bigger' home screen layout; and 2) Do you use landscape mode most of the time or have the orientation locked in that view? I'm on the 'bigger icons' and the widget edit menu is different, i.e. does not allow 'pinning' of Today View to the home screen in landscape mode, BUT just to test I switched to the smaller icon option and then was able to select the top selection below in the pic.
SO, if you switch to the larger icons, the home screen pinning is NOT available or in the smaller icons screen can be switched off - I've also limited what I see when I swipe on my home screen to just 5 widgets shown below - for more help see
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LINK 2. Dave
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