Your better judgement is correct. The 'schematic' for the iPad - essentially the components that it contains and how they are interconnected - is a closely guarded secret. The boards are multi-layer PCBs (printed circuit boards) employing SMT (surface mount technology) ICs (integrated circuits). A move from the existing chipset to a 4G chipset would require a completely new PCB because it would not be practical to remove the existing ICs. These are fixed to the PCB using a matrix of pins on the underside of the IC - a ball-grid array (BGA) - which are soldered to the PCB using low-melting-point solder. To remove the ICs requires specialist infra-red equipment that I assume you do not have access to. Furthermore, even if you could remove the existing 3G chipset, the 4G chipset would be physically and electronically incompatible with the existing PCB so, as I mentioned earlier, a completely new PCB would be required. A further problem is that 4G operates on a different frequency to 3G and the iPad's 3G antenna is 'tuned' to the 3G and not the 4G frequency.
Bottom line - don't even think about it....
If you want to see an interesting tear-down of the iPad and details of the 3G electronics, go to the iFixit website where they have done a very comprehensive teardown and subjective analysis of the iPad's design.
Tim