I laughed when u said u uninstalled cydia itself..lmfao. U did good uninstalling the other stuff but when u restore, the cydia app will get deleted. I posted about that earlier about how jailbroken apps data will remain in ur device still eating up memory space unless u uninstall them b4 the restore. Glad to hear u found out about DFU mode and got a clean iOS install.
For the record, multitouch gestures is only avai. On developers version of iOS 4.3. Apple allowed them to test it out. It's locked within iOS for normal users. There is an article in Gizmodo or Redmondpie that describes how to go about getting multitouch gestures.
I felt the same way to when I first jailbroke or really everytime..lmao mim like man, I hope I donfpt f$&@ up my iPad. Cuz I wouldn't be able to take it to the apple store to get fixed. Thankfully we have hard reset and DFU mode to get us out of trouble. With cydia apps, u have to wait till description loads fully and thoroughly inspect it to make sure it'll run on iPad also. If not, u could get ur iPad into trouble downloading and installing something not meant for it. I had that happen once months ago n got myself outta that jam. Lol I learned my lesson n very weary now about what I download n install from cydia. ;-)