Okay. But it is safe for me to restore straight to ios 6?
I thought that I had to restore to what is currently running on my ipad3 (which is 5.1.1), and then I can update regularly to ios 6.
No. You can restore to iOS 6 from a jail broke iOS 5.1.1. Make sure you do a backup first, then click the "Restore" button on the main Summary tab. Once iTunes has done its magic, you can select to "restore from backup" (following iTunes prompting). Then, you'll be on iOS 6 with all your "stuff" there (well, except for the jail break and its accompanying tweaks).
Hope that clarifies.
Marilyn