@buzzzz unfortunately, im in a country that does not not have an official apple store. i bought mine from Columbus Ohio. no way to return it to apple. and i dont think theyd replace it, since it JUST ran out from the 1 year warranty period.
it keeps getting stuck on error 4005 which is bad communication between ipad at the computer. ive read tons of forums and youtubed a lot of videos. nothing helps. one guy suggested that there could be some dust deposit in the lightning port. i dunno. possible?
@carpethanger appreciate the advice. tried itunes 11.00 which came out right after the ipad 4 was released. (and tried every subsequent itunes version thereafter) nothing seems to work. with older itunes, the restore process gets stuck on "contacting apple". the error that pops up is due to apple servers not recognizing old itunes. sucks!
i had find my iphone enabled. but no way to disable that now.
from what ive learnedso far.. itunes cant communicate with the ipad properly. (although it does recognize it and powers it on during the restore process. along with a few flashes on screen)
i really belive that this is a hardware issue now. ive never had problem restoring i devices, which ive been doing for years. this one is a real head scratcher.
might have to take it to a professional. and if nothing works, probably sell it for parts. sigh