Cant sync imessage on IPAD2 with IPhone 4Gs

[ladyk28]

My bluetooth on my iphone will not discover my iPad at all? All my other macs pick up the iPad. Even the iPad discover the iPhone 4Gs but 4gs discovers nothing...

How do you set up iMessage to sync with your iPhone???

 

[lizliew]

Do the parties have to be ONLINE before i can send a message using imessage? I get the send button greyed out

 

[ladyk28]

That part I do know, no they dont have to be online, they will get it when they sign in

 

[lizliew]

That part I do know, no they dont have to be online, they will get it when they sign in

But the send button is greyed out, so how do i "send" the message?

strangers are friends we haven't met yet