I haven't used a printing app in a long time. I used Print n Share by Eurosmartz on my iPad 1 and 2, for a little bit. I've also used one or more of the HP printing apps. There are two or three of them. I have no idea what they are capable these days.
If you can find an app specifically for and from your printer brand it would be the most likely to include extra controls and features.
I still make rather heavy use of my computer, and it's right next to the printer. I also have Printopia (Mac only), which allows me to print directly to a folder, or even to an app like Preview on the computer. So, on the rare occasions that I need something printed from the iPad with more control, I two step it. iPad to computer, then computer to printer.
I just don't print to paper often enough to bother finding a perfect solution from the iPad. Sorry.
I do print to folders a lot though. It's a great way to save email and/or web page receipts; and it doesn't really matter whether they fit perfectly on a piece of paper when you do that.
OPrint is a similar app for Windows.