Thanks for the new suggestions. I'm worried that I may have some type of ap discontinuity. When I signed back on this evening - after having closed all open aps from the bottom bar with the minus signs, and thendone a reset and a full recharge - my facetime came back on with my contacts in the upsidedown posution from the camera (yes, I know you can turn the whole thing upside down, too, but it puts the camera BELOW you. One I had the contact entered, I could then turn it back 180* to its upright position. Still the mute is engaged(I get the muted symbol), and no matter how many times I poke the silly thing (no matter what position the toggle lock is in) the thing will not become unmuted. Haven't done a wired sync recently. I will try that and let you know how it goes. ALL my volume settings (on the bottom bar the whole way to the left and within itunes) are up and on. Thanks for you continuing suggestions. I haven't checked to see if I muted the volume in netflix or youtube even though I don't think that will have any bearing on it I'll check there, too. Thanks for your kindness with my confusing problem.