Ah got it. Sounds like you should go one way or the other then. Mixing OS's of any sort is going to be problematic. You could just as easily say that the Android phone is the problem because it doesn't work with the iPad.
If you were to have an iPhone and an iPad 2 using iOS 5 you could take a picture on either device and have the photo on the other device in seconds via Photo Stream. I took a picture of our dogs with my iPhone earlier today. Within 10 seconds it was on my iPad as well as my iMac computer. No Bluetooth device that I know of can do that.
FWIW I had a Motorola Android phone for a time but after a few months switched to an iPhone 4. The Android Apps were difficult to buy and often buggy, trying to get music and photos on it from my computer was a pain...I just spent way too much time working
on it instead of enjoying it. The difference in how well the iPhone, the apps, syncing everything, etc. works compared to the Android is night and day. Not to mention how seamless using the iPhone is with my computer. I would never ever consider going back. I've also used a couple Android tablets and they seemed so heavy and crude compared to my iPad.
Each to their own of course and I'm sure you'll find something that works for you. However mixing Apples and oranges (pun intended) is probably never going to work well.
Forgot to mention that I print from my iPad (using PrintBureau) without any problems. The photo editing thing I'm not familiar with...I edit everything on my computer.
My two pence.