How do users put up with this
cr@p?? I mean seriously, you have to jailbreak the POS to do a function so basic as set a default browser??
I know what you mean and this was how I felt when I first started using the iPad. The "Walled Garden" mentallity (closed file system etc) are hard to accept at first.
I am not an Apple apolopgist but I have gradually found ways to do almost everything I need to do on the iPad and very seldom fire up my PC these days.
I believe that the iPad has to be thought of as a cloud computing device. There are obvious cloud services such as DropBox, gMail, Picasa etc and I use a Western Digital NAS as a personal cloud. Apps such as FileBrowser provide viewing access to files on the local NAS and I even find myself using iSSH to copy flles to and from the NAS using Linux commands.
Years ago Apple's slogan was "Think Different" and I think that this applies to the iPad.
to sum up.
I like...
Instant startup
Always ready web browser and email client
Great place to store/view PDFs, spreadsheets etc
Long battery life
No heat
Small form factor
I don't like...
The "Walled Garden", becoming less of issue as I find ways around it
No Flash, only because I can't access all web sites I need to
Poor support for photographic workflow
Lack of video out (available on iPad 2 as Video Mirroring)
Disappointed with AirPlay/Apple TV so far, hopefully this will improve
Survival essentials...
FileBrowser, GoodReader, Numbers, Pages, SplashTop, iSSH apps
Western Digital MWBE NAS with Linux shell exposed
ZaggMate keyboard
Apple TV 2 (in the hope that the available functionality will improve)
External reserve battery (such as Mophie), to keep going when the battery gets low.