Sorry, I made a bad assumption that this was a no brainer. I have updated the first post with a line stating you should have the latest version of iTunes.
Whilst it is now possible to own an iPad and never use iTunes thanks to IOS5, you must still have the appropriate device drivers installed on your PC if you ever want to connect it (even if only for jailbreaking activities, such as redsn0w). Those drivers typically come via an iTunes installation, so as you discovered, you do need it. The good news is you never actually have to use it if you don't want to!
No apology needed, and I really appreciate your input.
It is also good to know that I don't have to contend with ITunes anymore. So, is it now proper reasoning that MediaMonkey, WinAMP or other similar programs, would serve for the needs of file transfers to, and from my IPad?